As we celebrate International Men’s Day for another year, the concept of a day set aside for men is certainly growing on people globally, of course nothing like the magnitude of International Women’s Day. This will take time and lots of effort by organizers, governments, gender-based NGOs and men’s groups to consistently push the idea of IMD.
This year’s theme “Better relations between men and women” is very timely as we witness increased acts of violence and domestic abuse as families spend more time at home due to COVID-19 pandemic. Our society is built on the foundation that men and women get along, procreate and raise a family in order to sustain society and the human race itself. Better relations between men and women also means that children raised in those homes grow up more socially and emotionally ready for adulthood, less deviant, and better prepared for relationships themselves.
The above is obviously an oversimplification of two complex phenomenon call relationships and socialization, however, it is deliberate. You see, in my humble opinion over time we have over-complicated relationships and socialization. Men want to play the roles of women and women want to play men’s roles. While I do not necessarily subscribe to all traditional gender roles, some roles are not negotiable. The push to please everyone regardless of how insidious their rights claim has made our lives very complication and blurred the lines of what (or who) is man and what (or who) is woman.
Men and women need each other; we are interdependent and therefore must strive to live in harmony as we play our various roles to make our society sustainable and to pave the way for the next generation.
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